Hello From Diane

Can you believe that the Holidays are here already? Seems like the days, months and years are moving right along and I am personally slowing down and being more selective about what I choose to do. It could be because of age or maybe I just do not want to work that hard anymore :-).  

  The have to's definitely have become less and less over the years and my desires and want to's seem to have become the bigger part of my life.

  If it does not feel good or you might say feels icky, I will not put my self in a position to build resentment and  the lessons of a 2x4 intensifying to a 4x4 because I invalidated me.

  You   probably have already figured out why I am bringing all of this up - the expectations around the Holidays.  Expectations that you put on yourself or you allow others to put on you because of perceived obligations.  

  Do these statements ring a bell:

"We have always done it this way", "I have done it all these years, it's your turn now", "You don't really want to disappoint anyone, do you?", or maybe you have said something like this to yourself or someone else: "I really don't want to  but....", "I will never hear the end of it, it's just easier this way",  "Why do I always get stuck doing this, no one else offers to help?".   These are just a few basic examples of the stress of the Holidays.

We all have our own voice and because of training we have learned to just go along or practice avoidance.  Both of these situations cause resentment and also have the same energy pattern associated to them which ultimately creates volcanic explosion or illness.  

  Regardless of how good we think we hide our frustration people feel it.  They may not know exactly what is wrong so they start  assuming - maybe even taking things a tad personal.  As resentment builds it becomes an issue of undisclosed words which turn into misunderstandings and than emotional upset with the possibility of the relationship ending.

  What were we attempting to prevent in the first place by saying nothing?  Hurt feelings maybe or not wanting to disappoint (looking for acceptance externally).  Where do either one of these perceptions benefit us or  others?

  We are living in a time that is much more introspective and the truth is persistent.  You heard that old saying, "You can run but you cannot hide?"  The lessons will appear over and over again until we get it.

 When you are truly enjoying yourself - Fantastic :-)  When you are invalidating yourself - Beware the 2x4 is coming !!!  

I wish you fulfillment and a whole lot of fun and laughter !!!

As your world continues to shift and align with the purity of truth, the denseness of power and greed escalates and strengthens opposition.

 Those who use fear to control will find their tactics no longer impact the majority.  As a result, the expression of individualism intensifies conflicting behavior.              

  This is a turning point in your history where civility is exemplified by the voices and actions of humanity at the most critical times of vulnerability.  Bearing witness to the crumbling of the old and bringing light to the new era is a honor indeed, would you not agree?

  Eruptions will continue to occur, for shifting and neutralizing, as this new way of life unfolds.   Your driven states will guide you during these times of ambivalence.

  What we would say to so many of you who see your glass 1/2 empty, "Could you not see the potential for opportunity in what you perceive as loss?"  

 Stagnancy  manifests change and fear manifests struggle, it is simple physics.  When both occur together discomfort plays a role to encourage movement forward which is imperative for growth.  

  Your bodies are resilient and yet the functionality is being tested.  What you consume will either agree or not, pay attention as it speaks.  Your vitality and immunity are crucial in these coming years to sustain the physical anatomy.  

   The path set before you has many rewards in valuing the gift of autonomy  

We Wish You Wisdom And Peace

In this Glorious Expedition

 Peace, joy prosperity and abundance to you all.

Spiritual Counselor  

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